I am so sorry he is still so angry and spending like crazy. Unfortunately, it is all par for the MLC course.
You definitely need to do whatever you can to protect your finances. I will warn you, because I went through this with my h - no matter how much proof you have of their spending, they will deny it and get angry. I had bank statements and credit card statements, and he still denied it - then turned it around to say that I was shallow and only cared about money!
Their thinking is very skewed, and believe me, when they are in the infatuation stage of affair, nothing you say or do is really going to change that. You can bet on one thing... Whatever "advice" the ow is giving him, it's going to be to her benefit.
Mlcers do get very paranoid too. It's all part of it. My h would go off about people spying on him, talking about him, badmouthing him, etc.
Their minds are messed up Scooby. Don't expect logical thinking anytime soon.
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
