I can assure you that I am doing that. I can't express enough the fact that they are my absolute number one priority right now, above everything else. Everything I do now and every decision I make is made with their well being as paramount. My W has seen them quite a bit over the Easter break but that is over now and we will revert back to the norm of her only seeing them a couple of times per week. The tweaks I made to the schedule did't really change much of that although I had left opportunities for her to have more time and hoped she would take advantage but it seems not. So apart from clariifying exactly when she shes them on specific days and agreeing how they should be handed over nothing much has changed. It concerns me for my boys sake that she doesn't seem worried about spending more time with them but all I can do is be strong and loving for them. I am also concerned about our holiday. I have spent a lot of time planning activities for them when we go and it saddened me last night when I looked at our itinerary and realised my W would not be there. She had been heavily involved in the early planning of it and its going to feel so strange doing all of the amazing things we had planned, without her. I feel that it may yet still be a bit of a hurdle for us as she does really want to go. I just don't see how it would be possible?
