"Some people have profiled on here about me & xbf that are just not true... some advisers just will not trust my words, but insist that I take their advice. How can I take their advice when they wont hear the truth first?"
You keep saying this stuff about how people have "profiled" you and your X. You haven't been profiled (that's your term). For those of us who have been here a long time, your situation and personalities are the same as dozens of others who have come and gone.
You keep saying how people don't trust your words or what you "know", etc. But the fact is all of that is YOUR perception. Sometimes you need someone seeing things from the outside to tell you when your perception may be wrong.
You never imagined your X was going to dump you. You probably told yourself that you "know" him, etc., but look... the more you learned here, the more you found out that you didn't know him. But you kept taking offense at people trying to tell you what he's going through and you've said time and time again that the posters are wrong until he does something that proves that that the posters were right.
And that's the frustrating part with you. Rather than keeping your mind open, you just chose not to listen to those that you "knew" was wrong. Part of growing and learning is keeping an open mind rather than criticizing the ideas of those with comments you don't agree with.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
