I think I belong here #3

[BrightFuture]

Does he expect you to help to fill out the paperwork? I would tell him to do it himself and when ready pass it on to you.

My H wanted to do this together online last year. I told him to just go ahead and do it, then bring it to me, so I could pass it to my attorney. He was surprised to hear about attorney and asked me if I already had one. I said no, but interviewed a few. He left and never heard the D word since then.

I agree with Heather, you need to rush anything. If you are not ready, you don’t have to do it right now.