I'll answer why I left her as a friend first. I didnt really care that I was fb friends with her. Nothing she posted upset me and it was just another way she could see what I was doing with s3.
I unfriended her because of the recent stuff she was posting. Lovey dovey posts by other dude and her posting she loves him too and all sorts of other hurtful things. I tried to battle through it for a week but decided I had enough self inflicting pain.
Maybe I should've not said anything but I thought it wouldn't hurt to tell her in person in a calm respectful way. I was wrong obviously, it touched a soft spot and then she went into her many tangents and blame shifting.
Surprisingly she called me from work and seemed to have calmed down a lot. And I mean a lot. She was friendly and was asking for help with her phone and other random stuff. We even laughed about what s3 has been doing to us lately(he pretends to kiss us then wipes his nose on our face).
I think I'm going to take the high road again and just be myself around her. We'll see...
Me-35 Com law-28 S-3 T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu 1st bu- 2/2012 Rec-4/2013 2nd bu-10/2013 IC-2 yrs(anger issues) MC- 5 mnths-fail OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14 New OM ~10/4/14