afraid I have waited too long #3

[MrBond]

You did fine with the accounts. Because you are starting to take charge and controlling your own life, your W will start turning into a monster. YOu'll find that she's going to start blaming you for everything. And I mean EVERYTHING. She's going to accuse you of taking advantage of her or trying to ruin her, etc. But you put your foot down and don't try to rescue her. YOU get stronger and happier. You'll see that the happier you get, the more miserable she will be.