ME. Completely dumbfounded...she dragged me into,it again! ...
I seems to me you were a willing participant. I have yet to see where you take responsibility for your own actions.
What is the specific boundary you set that she violated?
I know that you are not posting every discussion you have with you W, but most of them seem to lead back to sex or physical contact; either with you or the OM.
Was this common previously in your marriage?
M:34 XW:34 Together: 10y Living: 9y Married: 7y Son:6 Son:4 Separated: 12/28/13 Piecing: 5/2/14 Separated 2nd: 10/16/14 W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14 papers served: 1/27/15 D final: 3/6/15