" I'm doing the program except i haven't detached. I haven't because the GAL in the LRT was opposite for me. We never spent time together as a couple so i stated d doing that as my 180. The consequence of that is me becoming closer to her so i couldn't detach. Now i need to detach."
What you don't understand is that the spending time together as a couple was an issue BEFORE the BD. Now she doesn't want to spend time together with you. In fact, doing so just gets her irritated. There's a difference. That part is important to get in the book.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.