Seems like in my story (and from some other examples shared here) WAS's often have a tendency to take steps to ensure that their situation "matches" the scenario they have created or want.
W once told a friend that she was insecure and her greatest fear was that I'd leave her. Irony.
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"Remember, the opposite of Love isn't Hate -- it's APATHY."
The sad part is that it comes naturally with time. My WAW would argue that I became apathetic years ago.
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BEGIN MOVING ON, and keep up with your changes
The changes are habits now, no problem there.
I have about 25 years of this and that in the basement that needs to be cleaned up -- a lot of hobbies that have accumulated a lot of small parts. I don't look forward to it, so much so that I always said the next place I moved would be a pine box. I want to get myself inventoried and the place ready to be listed by August.
