I am not sure if I read it or not, so went back to look for link ... I cannot find it, are you sure you sent it to me? I will review the last thread again... and if I find it, I will be sure to read it.... I NEED IT!!
Nero... I did not see your post. Thanks for your support. Many times I do feel that the suggestions are demands... like I am expected to do as told. To not question the authority, etc. I do appreciate the advice, but my ways come across as debating/arguing (thats not how I intend it). I admit I am relentless/passionate... when trying to make a point that I don't feel is clear.
For example... it has been suggested that I have an alcohol or other addiction. This is far from the truth! As suggested, I went to the doctor to enquire about it (felt obligated to follow the suggestion, was even challenged). When I was ensured that there wasn't a problem, this person still insisted over and over... Now, how would you/anyone respectfully hold your ground on a crazy notion such as this? I am insulted to keep having to hear it. I drink casually, socially & even less than EVER before.
Some people have profiled on here about me & xbf that are just not true... some advisers just will not trust my words, but insist that I take their advice. How can I take their advice when they wont hear the truth first? and then the word "EVERYONE" comes into play. And its suggested that everyone feels the same & everyone has the same advice... it upsets me greatly because they aren't hearing the rest of the truth that may alter their initial opion...that is possible. I know that if someone told me further details, I might just change my mind.
Anyway... this post was just supposed to be about finding further information about communication. I will look again. Tx for the suggestion Job.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
