I believe I identified a reason why I want to send her a letter. Fear.

Im not sure how she is going to react with my request to ask for more time with my children. We seem to be getting along well now so I fear this will "rock the boat".

Its not a bad thing what I am doing, Maybe she is open to this idea?

Would me sending her a note asking if this separation is still what she wants a huge backslide?

Ultimately I would love to have my family reunited but I am fully prepared for the challenges of part time single parenting.

Should I send the letter first, then the parenting plan?

What do you folks think?


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.