I learned that when threatened/scared my old ugly behaviour that wants to push and push and push... to be heard, etc., comes out.
I do not like it.
This happens because I feel I am not heard and/or the conversation was interrupted and we didn't get back on track to an end result.
When I do this on this thread, its because an assumption was made & I feel the need to clarify to give the whole story or to make sense of my actions. How can one clarify things, without sounding like I am ARGUING/debating/challenging, etc?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
