Did you look at the link about Divorce Care? There are about a zillion in your area. smile

Actually interacting with people in a similar situation can be be very helpful.

Have you thought of moving to the Surviving the Big D board here?

Do you talk to your IC about what you've relayed in the last thread? Are you working on it with him/her?

What scares you so much about moving forward and letting go?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss