I'm very sorry for you, your daughters, and your wife. I hope that the bright side (bad term) is that your D's will be with you and in a stable home, and your W will get the help she needs. I hope this is her bottom so she can rise up. I add my praters for your family.
M45 H46 M16 yrs D17, D10, D7 DB 1-23-2014 H filed D 2-14-2014