I know it's extremely difficult keeping your head together when she's spewing lies constantly. I know my WAW is constantly lying. That's what they say: don't believe anything she says. Seems like she's waffling on the A but that's to be expected. It's very difficult to go cold turkey on an addiction and that's what As are. Not sure, but maybe I would tell her I know how hard it is to end the relationship with him. You'll still have feelings for him but they will fade with time. You made the right choice to put your career first and you should be proud of yourself for having the strength to do that. I know I'm proud of you for that. Like I said, I'm not sure that would be productive, but I don't think it would hurt. At least you're validating her actions.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
