Hey GB-sorry to hear the latest news. I totally agree with Wonka and Snodderly. Go dark.

As for the future, you never know. Just as we would have never imagined our lives where they are now, we cannot predict where they will be down the road. I am so glad that you are strong for your kiddo's. You are setting a great example and being the rock they need. Your H seems to be spiraling very fast.

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014