Umm........ I was thinking of listening in on her talking to him and as soon as I hear when he plans on coming, taking the girls on an impromptu camping trip! No, actually I'm really not sure about this one. I was thinking that telling her I'd rather they not come for a visit would just give her an excuse to be angry and feel like I'm trying to control her or worse, stop her from having a relationship with new, improved dad. There are days where I feel I could talk to her and she might be ok but on days like today when she seems to want to find fault with everything I say or do I can't see how anything I say will help keep him away.
I actually have thought if I were to try and make it seem like I'm all for him coming and being with the kids, she just might change her mind and say he's not coming but that only works on sit-coms. So, not sure CB. What do you think?
