Wow 3, great posts. Great observations in your H problem solving or lack thereof. You sound really good. Don't you find that happens after a period of weakness, sadness, or anger? I sure do. I find that now I'll cry, cry hard. Then, move on to the next item of business. No more sobbing all day, but also no more stuffing my feelings just to have them reappear with a vengeance.
Your H sounds really conflicted and I think you handled the situation really well. He just can't put his finger on you anymore. You've changed and he doesn't simply want to walk away. He needs time and he is so blessed to have a devoted wife that is giving him that gift. You're awesome 3!
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014
