The hugging thing -- good for you for walking away from it. My H seems to think I still want to do that. One month ago I just decided I didn't want to anymore. Like you said, he's not the man you married. Mine isn't either (I like your poem, by the way). And mine also has OW with 2 young children (we have none). OW is still married but very recently separated. Those poor kids. Who the heck do they think my H is?? CRAZY, this MLC. You sound strong -- keep moving ahead. You, and all of us, will get through this, one step at a time.
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15
