Crimson....waiting for goodness to happen.

[25yearsmlc]

I think the ONLY way SHE can learn that the "Flow" of any long term r takes communications flowing...is by het being in a R with OM...

it's becoming clear to me that for her, this is the lesson life has to give for it to sink in. Hold onto your hat and go live your life.

And btw, you know, I dated OMs when h and I were sep. Met some very compatible men. The "jerks" were a real drag that made me wince for my h, but there were some GOOD men too.

And for the most part, the newness was not all great, (awkward and even scary at times) and even the winning men mostly made me miss my h more, b/c we were well suited for each other, and were so so close before. I missed the intimacies only a familiar couple shares...

Crimson, you need to look into that workshop I mentioned a gazillion times and or, something like it. A good long weekend workshop is probably what you need to shake you up enough to SNAP yourself out of this.

Allow me to virtually reach thru this computer to slap you upside the head a bit...

now, snap out of this funk... Leave it in HIS hands, please.

Oh, and stop taking it back the very next day, too...