"If I change my mind, it will be a sign of weakness."
And there's this convo... As I'm working on packing up my books to move, H says "were you planning on taking those bookcases with you?" Me: Well, we hadn't discussed it yet, but you own maybe 5 books, so it would make sense for me to take them (I have dozens, maybe over 100 books?) H: So? I could put other stuff on them. Me: Like what? H: Bobbleheads. Me: OK... H: well, if you take them, I'm just going to buy the exact same bookcases and replace them.
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final
