It's been 8 days since I filed the divorce, and honestly I feel really good about it. W signed the joinder and approved the alimony and monetary settlement we agreed to.
The only hurdle is making sure W signs the kids to me like she said. W keeps saying she will, she knows in her heart they are better off with me.
Yesterday, W was telling me she wants me to cosign for next place starting in June (she wants to get a 1 year lease). I told her I would be ok with a few months, but no way would I be cosigning for her place in November when her baby will be born and OM will be staying with her all the time.
She started threatening me and told me she was going to have to move in with OM and his parents next door to me and the kids. I responded that would be a horrible thing for the kids to see and she needs to apologize to me for threatening me like that, and she did. It's weird, she doesn't respect me, but she still respects my opinion.. I don't get it.
I've asked her a bunch why OM won't cosign for her, she doesn't know... LOL! It must be true love. He obviously doesn't trust her. She's starting to panic I think. She knows she can't control me much longer. She can't control OM either. Her parents and whole family don't accept her.
We'll see where this goes, but I don't want her back. No thanks. I'm pretty sure this is what detachment looks like. It feels great.
