So today I am very angry. H continues to play H at OW house - did yardwork today there. Spent another $300. Still spending time with OW - now they go to the gym and workout together (apparently she is training him.) PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!

H washed sheets on his bed and put different sheets on his bed and hid it. H has not touched laundry in 15 years. So now i think the PA is happening at my house when kids are at school and I am at work.

It is hard to detach from him in the same house. H is so into OW, that he does not notice what I am doing now. H really monsters when he is at work and calls and does not know where we are. It pisses me off! I don't know where he is while off work and don't call.

HELP!!!! The whole OW situation bothers me, the rest I could deal with. The harder I try the more I think about it. Not sure what to do....ugh!!!