Well the bad news is she is vacillating....the good new is, well, she's vacillating. And at a bare minimum that is indicative of SOME level of internal struggle. As uncomfortable as that may be, it is not the WORST place to be at all. I think you are handling things well. Don't get too high on the positive signs, don't get too low on the negatives....find your groove and stay in it.....and keep posting. You'll find it is a lot better to say stuff here as opposed to saying it to your W.