Hey K! Yes, an eclectic urban oasis lol... maybe we can figure some way to exchange social media names w/out being banned here... too bad they don't allow personal messages on the forums. I'm sure I'll post pics once I'm done.
I'm not doing too much in the GAL dept.... probably b/c there's not much to do at the moment. The meetup group I am a part of hasn't posted too many events that fit my schedule as of late. But getting my apartment together is really my focus, when I am working on a project I am all about it until I am finished lol
The weather does effect my mood a bit... summer time is my favorite.... the sun, water, music, food...there's an event or festival almost every day during the summer months where I live.
Roommate is 24 y.o. and still very child-like in many of her ways...and has a lot to learn.
Sunday we went to church, there are two entry points to the highway on each side of our 3 mile wide neighborhood. If you're going East, it makes sense to head east and get on the highway on the east side entry... if you're going west, drive west and enter the highway there. So you won't waste time and gas backtracking.
So I tried to tell her the Church is heading east, so the best route is to turn right and get on the highway there. She responded: "last week you told me I should get on the high way by going west".
I tried to explain to her that we were going to a store what was west of town, so that's why I suggested heading in that direction last week. At this point, she began talking over me and saying "la la la la la" loudly like a child who doesn't want to hear their parent telling them no.
Seriously. Who does that? I have never had that experience in my life. I was very irritated by that, I just sat in silence for several minutes, until my feelings settled.
She also does things that remind me of H.... one thing is leaving with out saying where you are going.
When I am on my way some where... I usually say "hey, I'm going to the grocery store, I will be back shortly" and usually she likes "hey can I go to?!" and I say sure (even though I'd rather just be alone most times)
When she leaves, she gets dressed and just goes....I assume she wants to be asked where she's going so she feels cared about? I don't know. But you've only lived here a month...there are 3 million people in this city, a good portion of them are not sane...its silly to not let someone know where you are going.
She allergic to fish, nuts, coconut etc... I was eating so healthy before she came b/c I was eating lots of fish, no I can't cook that b/c if she breathes it she will have a reaction. I love to use coconut oil in my hair and as a moisturizer... can't do that anymore b/c I my touch something and then she could touch it and have a reaction. And any time I eat a granola bar or something with nuts she asks that I wipe down all knobs etc.. lol
So yes, I am ready for her to move out. It's like being married again lol I want my freedom!
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope