One year in but a newbie

[Lifes Twists]

So my middle daughter came over after school today to talk. I discussed with her a bit what was going on. She indicated that there are a lot of issues at the apartment. She said the boyfriend is demanding she get the divorce because he believes it will limit my access to the kids and such. she says he is causing her mother to cry a lot. My daughter also said that her mother is drinking excessively and not able to remember conversations they have and is getting angry at the girls when she demands they never had a discussion. My daughters boyfriend asked her is she realizes how much her mother is drinking. She told me she now understands why I was trying to get wife to stop last winter before the BD. The big problem is my wife is mixing alcohol with anti depressants. My daughter said she was talking to her boyfriend and told him she did not know what to do. My daughters boyfriend told her to give it a week and if it did not improve that she should move in with me. If she comes my youngest will probably come too. This would leave my college age daughter down there this summer. My middle daughter feels her older sister does not realize how bad it has become, but will learn shortly after she gets there.

So, I expect things will get real rocky for a bit. Maybe this will cause my wife to wake up a bit and get the help she needs. Maybe not. But I am going forward with my life and hopefully will be able to get my children out of this situation that is not healthy for them right now.