Magic, Do you feel comfortable with your description? If so, then own it and share it w/him. If you think you've missed something, what would you normally do? How would you go about defining exclusive?
As I mentioned yesterday, I'm listening. commiserating and encouraging you from now on. I am not going to provide you w/advice, suggestions or guidance...it's time for you, Magic, to start doing the hard work. The only way to do that is to put your focus back on you and what you need to do to make decisions.
I think you are afraid of making decisions and that's why you continue to seek answers and have the same topics discussed repeatedly on your threads. As long as posters continue to provide you w/the same answers repeatedly, are debating w/you and even debating w/other posters about you and your situation, your focus will not be on making decisions for yourself and your situation, i.e., rather keep the situation going w/o every making some hard decisions that you need to make for yourself.
Magic, don't be afraid. We all make decisions each and every day and sometimes they are good and other times not so good, however, we learn from decisions and that's what helps w/growth, independence and happiness.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
