Okay, guys. I feel like I'm in "new territory" today, even though logic/reason tells me that nothing is different today than yesterday. Or a month ago.
It's weird, though. H was very chatty yesterday, texting me all day and then last night about supposedly calling things off with OW. Granted, I didn't read "conviction" in the words he said he told her. I don't think they're "over" yet. And I also think OW is going to be GRASPING at this point because she gave up her own M ... and even, likely, custody of her D11 ... for H. I doubt she'll go down quietly.
Until a few minutes ago, I've heard NOTHING from H since the text last night. And I haven't contacted him today, either.
D17 texted me a while ago, asking for a copy of our most recent tax return for her to use for a financial aid application for college. I told her she'd need to contact H for that but that he has told me his copy is at his L's office.
H just texted, asking: "D17 filling out (info for) a school loan?"
I replied: "Yup."
And that's it.
This feels WEIRD after the texts all day yesterday ... and especially after the text last night.
I mean, this is how we've been communicating for two months. But I don't like it. I'd rather have yesterday's communication.
Should I be doing *anything* differently? I feel I'm one of those people who are now questioning whether me continuing to distance myself *completely* is going to make OW look like the more desirable option.
Surely these feelings/questions are normal. Maybe I just need reassurance that I'm doing the right things. Or suggestions on things I should start doing differently?
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014
