Makes me think..why do I get off on picking fights? Am I self sabotaging, am I trying to distance in a strange way?That is what I am trying to grasp.
Keep on this train of thoughts. It is about you and your feelings, not about your wife.
Why do you want to pick fights? Why would you self sabatoge? Why do you want to distance people? What are you scared of? What are the motivations, fears, insecurities behind these actions?
Keep going deeper. The answers are at the bottom of the well, unfortunately no one knows how deep it is.
Fear of abandonment/ fear of intimacy circle of these things
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
