Hi gogofo Your quote "Stop talking is barely step one. You need to look deep inside yourself at your motivations and feelings."
Makes me think..why do I get off on picking fights? Am I self sabotaging, am I trying to distance in a strange way?That is what I am trying to grasp.
The truth is I am confused. Do I wan to loose her ..no...do I have to let her go. Yes..
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
