^^^ I think it's important you don't sound angry when you talk to him, or he will dismiss what you say as you "acting crazy" or something.
Originally Posted By: MamaB
Thank you Artsy, I need to calm down before I c0nfront him. He is lucky he left yesterday and is in a different city. I agree about the D's finding out, that will mean more to him then my knowing.
Agree stay calm. My .02 worth is that you stay clinical about it (that it doesn't "bother" you).
Your only concern is that some inappropriate items with placed where the kids were able to find them. That you would appreciate it if things of that nature were left in a secure place (his place, his car, etc.).
Essentially, don't make it about you or your R.
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13
