choosing door #2 - next part in my journey

[TL72*]

thanks so much for your responses. Matt what you said actually feels right - once he cut the ties now he can see that it wasn't ME that was causing all his freakin' problems at all. At least I hope he will see that. Tboned, thanks for encouragement, I need it. It is the last thing I have to do to finish this so I will just jump in and finish it.
OK - exH just texted again out of the blue with "survive the night?" we had a lot of thunderstorms last night. Again this is unexpected. I have not responded yet. I think i'll wait an hour and then respond with something simple like "yes, thank you". I don't want to feel like i'm playing games here, but I was just getting used to him not ever contacting me and then I get texts Sunday night and again today. Playing with my head.