As you know, I have followed your threads for a long time.
(As an aside, I absolutely agree with golfmom's comments at the beginning of this thread and as you also know, I have pointed that out before on your other threads).
I really, really agree with Job's questions that she posed to you a few postings back. Use those questions to define what it is that you want.
You don't KNOW, Magic that your xBF wants committment. He does not know it himself - all of his words and actions have told you that.
If you are OK "dating" to see if he fits, great. But what is your plan if he, in fact, never commits of his own accord?
That is why you need to examine YOU and be comfortable with who YOU are.
I also very much agree with job's last post; you have all the tools and now need to learn to apply them through actions. I look forward to seeing true growth through your introspection and action.
