[ces67]

"So far I have been staying because: I made a commitment and honoring that is important to me, I think it is important to show this example for my boys (given that there is not any abuse, fighting or 3rd party involved), I made a choice to love my W for better or worse and something deep inside of me tells me it is still not the “right” thing to leave/give-up."

Completely get this and understand it. Had there not been a PA in my sitch with ongoing rejection, I'd feel the same way. And it is a teaching opportunity. If you are able to live this without resentment and anger then it will be a strong example of compassionate love. Keep taking care of yourself. That's what helps the others you care about.