Last night as I was going over spelling words with D7 just before putting my two youngest to bed, D10 was going trough an old computer bag that H had. She pulled out a plastic bag with lots of cards from another W to my H. Also two books, one love book and one of images not to masturbate to (that was the name of book). I was able to grab them,, but the girls saw them.
D17 took the bag and as I was trying to get littles to bed she looked through the bag. There were also reciepts for wemons underwear as well as a tiffiny braclet and charm, the same exact one he bought for me. By the time I got downstairs, D17 figured out it was a woman from H's work, she lives in Denver where H has moved.
I have. no idea how to handle the fallout. My kids are devestated and it happened so quickly. I have been really trying to protect them. I will tell my lawyer, but not to sure it will make much difference in the D.
Thizs has been going on for well over a year. I have asked H repetitively if there was OW and he always denied while looking me dead in the eyes. 9n fact he got mad the last time I asked because he had already answered the question.
I need advice please. What do I do now? How do I tell H I know, that his children are the ones who found out. I am so disgusted by him now, but don't want to make it harder for the kids. How do I proceed. Do I tell his family the truth, do I call her and confront (probably would never do that) I'm done with being nice and friendly.
M45 H46 M16 yrs D17, D10, D7 DB 1-23-2014 H filed D 2-14-2014
