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Ok i need help. My 13 & 15 year went and lifted weights at the gym with me. We had a blast. Got back home and I ran up to work to do a quick training overview (part of my job even though I'm on days) and when I left everyone was laughing and in good spirits. I get a text a few minutes after walking in my office from my W. She's upset cuz our 13 is being disrespectful and blaming my W. My W wants me to talk to him but I don't know what to say. I offered her to let him go to my pastor's wife which deals in children but she's afraid it'll be skewed cuz religious views on marriage (I understand her concern because my pastor is my coinselor) but I don't know what to do since we can't afford a different counselor and I want my child's fears addressed. How do I help him? Help?