Thanks Wonka. Are you and Ms Wonka back together? My memory is a bit foggy but I thought I'd read you are back together? I can stay patient as long as I need to, I can't imagine giving up on our family. I'm getting pretty worn down with trying to deal with everything, I have to find a way to keep going.

You're right, I was pursuing big time. Hearing my kids talk so much about wanting their Mom home with us last week really got to me. I was thinking the same thing, I've thought of little else.

I'm going to list the house this week and plan to let my W know about it. She'll have to sign the sales agreement anyway so she'll obviously have to know.

Not sure I will tell her about my plan to move to her area in the next couple of weeks or not. I think I should let her know, it feels like the right thing to do. Depending on how long it takes to sell the acreage I may be back here for the summer when my kids are off school so the move may be temporary. I'd hope the acreage would sell by the fall and then I can look to buy something over there then.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS