Too little too late? Beats me. I know it was for my marriage but it is an entirely different story.
What I learned about DBing is that it is more about fixing ourselves first. You will never save your marriage without saving yourself. The more you work on yourself, the more changes happen, and the they will become part of you.
You have tough task ahead of you. Your W is ready to D you. You have some issues that need to be dealt with. You need to fix this stuff and it is not something I think you can tackle alone.
Let me tell you why I was beating the snot out of you. It is because I got the feeling you are looking for a quick and easy fix. Your M didn't get to this point overnight or a matter of months. It isn't going to get fixed that quick, either.
You still haven't answered questions...
Why do you think you deserve another chance with your W?
“Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out” ― Art Linkletter
