1) Have you always been LD, or is this a new problem? I haven't always been this way until about 3 years ago.
2) Do you have any know physical ailments? Yes. I started taking Wellbutrin 2.5 years ago for depression and anxiety. I stopped taking it 2 weeks ago and seem to be doing okay with it. I also have a history of vaginal pain during sex. I've never been able to nail down what causes the issue, but eating well, exercising, etc. seem to help.
3) Any emotional traumas like neglect/abuse/rape? Nope.
4) Have you had your testosterone checked, it is the MOST precious chemical in your body, it is the ONLY known chemical to cause sexual desire. No I haven't, but I would be nervous to take hormonal treatments because my body is very sensitive to birth control pills and just about any kind of medication.
5) Have you any children? No.
6) Are there relational/family/financial problems? My husband was diagnosed with rectal cancer last May. This has been very stressful on both of us, obviously.
7) Is there any built up resentment between you two? You mean besides my husband being very frustrated with how little we have sex? If so, not really.
8) Is he meeting all of YOUR needs in marriage? Does he still DATE you for example? We have some certain things we do. We make sure to sit down to dinner together almost every night. Every other week he makes dinner trying a new recipe. There are some things that I can't seem to get over. I am a bit of a neat freak and my husband is the exact opposite. I'd even go so far as to say he's a slob. He promises he'll clean up our basement weekend after weekend and it never happens. I work full time and do all of the cleaning, shopping, most of the cooking, etc. We can afford to have a housekeeper come and I could really use the help. He keeps saying it's a great idea, but then when I say let's do it next week he always blows me off.
