One night I got a phone call telling me that my W and XXX XXXX were having an affair. She told me the details of what she saw. I confronted my wife about it.
End result was the A did not stop. It created an atmosphere in the home that was unbearable. She was angry. She tried to turn it around on me. The eruption was not a pretty sight.
I wish I had handled it differently but I can't unring that bell.
You have kids involved... I did not.
The fallout is going to involve everyone.
“Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out” ― Art Linkletter