I read your other thread, and what stood out to me was how you thought telling OM's W would probably end the A. Why would you think she has any more influence with her S than you have with yours? You thought her applying pressure to her H would end the A with your W. Maybe his W already knows about the A and is making threats like you have. Threats are non-effective when dealing with a WAS in an A.
This is not you doing work to save the M. This is you wanting somebody else to do the work.
Great points. Exposure very well may not end the A. In fact, they will have lots of opportunities to continue the A because of their work situation.
However, I think I need to stand my ground with telling the OM's W because I already warned them. I think it's the only way my W will understand I mean business. She has told me other people she does not want know. I may have to expose the A to them as well.
I've read that exposure can work because it ruins the fantasy of the EA. Once some reality and truth creeps into the situation, it can serve to help shatter the fantasy.
