I left you a voicemail on Friday--did you get it? I'm ready to venture east... and then back west! Woo hoo!
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It will hopefully help build a relationship. Right now they have a jokey type relationship. S18 goes to visit him to let him know that he needs him but his dad doesn't seem to get that.
This may be all his dad can/will do and hopefully your S18 won't expect more than to have a good time with his dad. He's making the effort, at least, and hopefully you don't have to hear any sob stories when he returns. I hate those.
I'll let you ask whatever questions you want to ask my D20 and her BF - if you need to. They're both kids of divorced parents and maybe they can fill in some blanks for you? And if it helps, they both have struggles that I believe are D-related. Not saying that they wouldn't have had other issues had things been different, but I've noticed some stuff myself. So feel free to ask away.
So... see you in exactly one week! BTW, dinner is my treat.
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."