Congratulations on finding your way here. You'll find lots of support from both HD and LD spouses. The fact that you realise this is something that you and your H need to work on is a good starting point. Many LD spouses here refuse to even acknowledge there is a problem so you're off to a postitive head start.
You were also able to communicate and discuss how often your H prefers to have sex which is another plus point for you. You said he would be happy with twice a week. Have you done anything about this? Also you must be able to communicate very clearly to your H what you need from him in order to feel desire and I am sure he will happily oblige.
