Originally Posted By: MrBond
And so what is your plan of action after you do so to deal with the fall out?


I could use some help formulating a fallout plan.

Originally Posted By: zew
Things to consider:

Is there such a rush as to resort to FedEx rather than in person?

FedEx means paper - which means copies that will go to everyone involved, their lawyers, etc., etc. forever. It can also mean libel in the case of unsubstantiated claims.

In person means you talk, you get reaction, you may learn something from other person, there's no paper trail...


That is true. Great info!

I should try to contact her in person multiple times. Anyway, I need to be in person to show her proof.

If I do feel a need to contact her via Fed Ex because multiple attempts at a face-to-face meeting failed, I'll be sure not to spell anything specific out in the letter. I'll keep it vague thanks to your excellent info.

Example: "Hi, S____ this is K____, D____'s husband. I have something important to tell you regarding your H and my W. Please call me ASAP (000)-000-0000." I


Me: 50 W: 51 S: 9
M: 11 T:13