The first conversation, regarding daughters picture on some mans Facebook, I wish I would have never brought up. That was a mistake on my part. It clearly made it appear I was creeping, and it wound up in conflict. I should have left it lay.

In the conversation regarding the marriage and moving on, I probably could have validated her feelings a little more. I did to some degree, but probably could have done better. It was a conversation that probably should have not been brought up as well. Nothing positive (that I am aware of) came from it. In the closing, I should have thanked her for her prayers. Pushing it back on her was petty of me, and I am sure it didn't help her guilt. I know that is not in either of our best interests, to make her feel guilty. It just makes me so mad, and always has, that she had such a lack of commitment to the marriage, at least in the end. I just can't break myself free of that feeling.


Me:46 Her:38
My D: 11
Her S: 8