Life in a mess 2

[MrBond]

" I was trying to get a bit more time off as I am exhausted"

Now you understand how she felt when she was doing most of the work.

"But I have now fully accepted that she is gone and almost certainly never coming back."

Mindreading.

"As for her relationship with the boys, well I know it is no longer my concern whether or not she maintains a relationship with them. "

That part should be a concern of yours because it will dictate how they're future relationships will be. You just can't control it, but should understand it.