It is heartbreaking for our kids to lose their dad..A dad that was once loving, attentive and available
I have accepted there is no real solution for us except to accept the fact that XH is gone..I know it hurts my kids on some level.. But it has been a while since contact with their dad and they have let him go accepting the fact that he may be "sick" mentally which I believe is the truth.One the other the hand the house is peaceful and positive..and both children now 12 and 18 have friends and do well in school with no behavior problems.We are 7 years post bomb
That is my story..I do hope your and your kids can find a common ground and be able to have a R with their Dad although it will be different
I believe MLC men and women are way different in D than usual people Because they sam to go off the deep end..the R with the kids seems to struggle more so what would appear like a happy ending in most D and co-parenting does not apply here we have to make the new normal in our families with a MLC parent
Good luck peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
