You have my sympathies on the loss of your mother. I know losing my own was a hard thing, and some moments it still is even though 8 years have passed. I'm sending you best wishes and hugs.
PS. You definitely have enough going on between getting well and your mother's estate that you needn't throw your H in the mix! Take care of Nero!!
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
