Rightyo. I'm just confused about it all. I understand that my statements may seem undetached. Where I was coming from was gathering as much information as I can to make an informed decision and to listen to and learn more about my wife in the process. You'd think after five months I might actually know more than I do.

Is it worth seeing the lawyer and real estate then? I wouldn't mind seeing the lawyer in case my wife does something I don't expect.

Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014