What are you expecting in terms of actions from W? Do you mean you're hoping she'll fall on the ground begging you for a chance after seeing the "light"? Ain't happening, buddy.
No I'm not expecting that, but what I expect as a first action would be a hug or hand holding. This is what I hope for / expect. Nothing more. Just something that would show a little movement. But after reading your post and thinking about it she will probably have to move past her first feelings of wanting physical contact until she feels safe with it. She probably won't grab my hand the first time she is inclined to. I am sure she is playing her cards close to the chest to not tip her hand or get me excited.
M:34 XW:34 Together: 10y Living: 9y Married: 7y Son:6 Son:4 Separated: 12/28/13 Piecing: 5/2/14 Separated 2nd: 10/16/14 W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14 papers served: 1/27/15 D final: 3/6/15